Let it happen, if it wants, to whatever it can happen to. and what's affected can complain about it if it wants. It doesn't hurt me unless I interpret its happening as harmful to me. I can choose not to.
Willful acceptance, knowledge that whatever happens is in line with nature. It is in line with the order of things as they should be. And unless I allow it to affect my thoughts I am unaffected by it. Tonight as I lay down in my bed for what is possibly my final rest I shall be comforted in knowing that walls of my inner fortress stand firm. And that the events of the day do not affect me unless I will them to do so. If I am fortunate enough to wake in the morning I will remember to accept the gift of a new day with a glad heart. And remember that events both good and bad are only so because I interpret them that way.